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The viral video of a woman shaming a bunch of young girls for their clothing choices has become a cesspool of extreme reactions. While some have come out in support of the girls who shot the video, others have condemned it (I even saw a Facebook post that referred to the girls as ‘snowflakes’) and yet others have - as usual - gone on to spray absolute filth in the comments section of the video.
Here's my two pennies worth, though.
Personally, I would choose not to put a video like that online, simply because the big bad world of social media is laced with people waiting to jump on to any thread, like a rat into a sewer, so that they can make a loud splash, fling some muck at others and buy themselves momentary distraction from their own shortcomings.
However, I stand in complete solidarity with the girls who shot and uploaded that video. Here's why:
Finally, what I do stand staunchly against is the way many people have reacted to this. No, pasting pervy comments against this woman, culling out her photographs and sharing her personal information/screenshots are not a way of responding to this. It only goes to show how regressive you are.
What’s more, media outlets too weren’t far behind in making a spectacle of her personal photographs. When one of the girls who was slut-shamed by this woman called her out for her alleged “hypocrisy” by sharing a photo of her in a dress - which she claimed to have downloaded just before her shamer deleted her account, a national news channel swooped in and made a news report out of the same.
Remember, when the woman in- question refused to apologise and when she resumed her regrettable tirade, she knew full well she was on camera, she had been told she could go viral. However, her pictures were her own business, and she had not been told they would go viral too. That is a clear violation of another woman’s privacy — something we, as society, should have long decried.
Let’s be honest. Our own family albums are stacked with photographs of people with regressive mindsets, but we don’t go around printing them in news, do we? This “auntie” is a symptom of a bigger problem, as are many of us.
So, if we want to find a cure to this problem, we need to start with ourselves, perhaps. The woman from the video has apologised now, her exact words, “In hindsight, I realise I was harsh and incorrect in my statement.” When will we?
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