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It’s the end of another year. We all know what that means.
Soon we will put behind the embarrassments of last year, and make new (yet the same old) New Years’ resolutions to exercise more, be more organised, flush out the negativity, opt out of toxic relationships, and reduce the time spent on social media.
Let’s pay some attention to the last one among the lot.
It’s a truth universally acknowledged that technology has taken over our world, we can’t live with it — at least not for long periods of time — and we sure as hell cannot live without it.
The thin line between sharing and over-sharing has long been blurred. Social media, they say, is one of the most toxic forms of self-indulgences.
So, if at the end of every year, you look back on your social media timelines — as I do — to check who you were this year, I don’t blame you. Self-validation, after all, is one form of social validation.
Did I look happy or depressed on my social media? Were my insecurities reflected in the memes and quotes that I shared? Am I a cooler person in the digital world than I am in the real world? If yes, how do I maintain it?
If you are continually asking yourself these questions, you are suffering from online existential crisis. Okay, I totally made that term up but the problem goes deeper than mere social media addiction.
The point about selfies and constructed selves may already be made and forgotten but is worth reiterating. To make it easy to understand, let’s consider one of the most viral songs of the year: Dhinchak Pooja’s ‘Selfie Song’.
“Selfie main leti jaun, apne friends ke sath,” says the song highlighting the digitally participatory nature of selfies.
For Dhinchak Pooja, the selfie says that she roams around in an Audi — a symbol of status and class (“Paisa mere peeche bhaage”) — day and night. For anyone else, it might say that they had a great weekend or that they’ve got adult-ing all figured out.
If that isn’t enough, there are social media filters, custom made to make us appear as the best versions of ourselves online.
Here’s the thing: people who tell you to just opt out, switch off, log out and not look back are mostly just bullshi**ing. Technology and social media are here to stay, which makes online existential crisis almost incurable.
A social media detox, however, can definitely reduce some of your stress. At the cost of sounding like your mother, here’s what you can do.
A word of caution: this method is tried and tested but not full proof, because hey, we are all in the same boat/code, trying to make sense of our — now heavily digital — world.
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Published: 08 Dec 2017,09:12 AM IST