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Actor Priya Varrier is the latest online celebrity to set the internet ablaze. Thousands have been enamoured by the 18-year-old actor’s ‘wink’ in a video that went viral practically overnight. Once you are done watching the video for the millionth time and the charm wears off, you wonder what exactly it is about the video that made the nation go gaga.
In the post-Harvey Weinstein era, the male aashiqs of yesteryear have been pretty much driven to extinction, with the emergence of a fluctuating and highly-political battle over what is the most ‘appropriate’ manner of courting a woman.
The socio-political sphere is dominated by newer social parameters for men regarding speech, posture and gaze, with even a focus on non-verbal cues, which ended up clubbing actor/comedian Aziz Ansari with celebrities accused of sexual harassment.
Is this the result of the combined effect of the gender sensitisation of men and the empowerment of women? Or is there a simpler explanation?
Are the flirtatious cues of courtship now deemed crass when wielded by men, simply considered harmless and even innocent — if not bold when wielded by a woman? The gender politics of today do not view a woman winking at a man, whistling at a man and even asking for his phone number as a predator.
Take the example of cases in the United States where female teachers are caught having relationships with male students. The first question is never, “Is this abuse of power?”
It always is “how attractive is the teacher?”
Scour the internet and you will find countless articles with the standard title ‘Hot teachers who slept with their students.’
Another explanation could be the simplest one — voyeurism — as Priya Varrier’s memes suggest. A smiling and winking school girl, followed by smiling older male celebrities – ranging from politicians to cricketers to actors — such is the crass imagery the Internet is infamous for.
Is the excitement over an 18-year-old girl’s wink another avatar of a ‘saas-bahu soap’ actress donning a bikini? Is it seen no more than perverse excitement or titillation caused by the loss of (another’s) innocence?
(The writer is a senior news editor at CNN-News18. This is a personal blog and the views expressed above are the author’s own. The Quint neither endorses nor is responsible for the same)
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Published: 16 Feb 2018,05:49 PM IST