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Have Shorts, Will Smoke.
It sounds easy, but isn’t, for an Indian girl. For many of us, such actions bring with it the heaviness of judgment, the heaviness of social stigmatisation, the heaviness of victim-blaming and slut-shaming.
And that can crush the souls of many girls, especially in small cities. For being bad is a label that is quick to be attached to a girl, but extremely difficult to get rid of. Our patriarchal society has many definitions of bad, but the best suited can be: one that doesn’t fit with a man’s idea of what a woman should, or shouldn’t do.
It is this idea of rigorous moral policing that the campaign #HaveShortsWillSmoke aims to fight. Started by Bruce Vain, the co-founder of Spoilt Modern Indian Woman, an inter-sectional feminist initiative that attempts to fight gender related stereotypes, the campaign invites women from all over the country to send them stories of wearing shorts and smoking and collates them on its website and social media channels to present a narrative of the societal bullying that women go through, simply for exercising choices they are legally eligible to make.
Stories of slut-shaming and catcalling pan across regions, countries and socio-cultural backgrounds. A SMIW contributor writes of an Indian waiter in Rome judging her, a solo traveller, for ordering wine!
Another campaign contributor, Subha Nivedha tells The Quint, of how she was labelled the bad girl, as early as in Class 8, and how the label affected her psychologically.
The campaign, as Bruce Vain, tells The Quint was “a response to a string of outrageous incidents that were reported in the media in quick succession — where women were policed, abused, harassed and molested for wearing shorts, smoking and doing other things that, if men did, no one would care”. Some of these were; a law professor shaming and insulting a female student for turning up for class in shorts; a woman in Kolkata being harassed by a mob for wearing shorts and smoking; and a woman wearing a dress and traveling in a car with her friends being chased and beaten up by a group of men in Pune.
About how Indian girls can start embracing their badness, the Founder says,
The Quint, too, supports the idea of ‘the Spoilt Modern Woman’. Months ago, we’d done a campaign on being a Buri Ladki.
You can catch our campaign here: Dear Moral Police, We’re Happy to be a Buri Ladki #NoMoreNirbhaya
(Disclaimer: Neither the campaign, nor The Quint promote or defend smoking)
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Published: 11 Jul 2016,07:44 PM IST