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The queer community of Ahmedabad came out in large numbers as the city organised its first ever queer conference, Sambandh. Led by Queerabad, a shared safe space for the city’s LGBTQIA community founded by danseuse Mallika Sarabhai’s daughter Anahita and Shamini Kothari, the three-day event ended with a very successful Pride March on Sunday.
“We had 300 people join us on the streets celebrating Pride with great slogans and spirit. If there was any doubt about whether there is a strong queer presence in Ahmedabad or Gujarat, that has been cleared now,” said Shamini Kothari, who also works with Conflictorium, a museum that works on conflict issues.
The conference was primarily in response to the lack of space to share queer studies and research. Says Shamini:
At Sambandh, discussions were led by JNU professor Brinda Bose and academic-activist Akshay Khanna – while several research students elaborated upon their essays and papers on the subject.
One such paper, ‘Confronted By The Body: negotiating visibility, and occupying public space in urban India’ by Amalina K Dave and Raj Merchant stated that societal norms in India dictate that, women or persons assigned the gender female at birth (PAGFB) – whether queer or not – are restricted from accessing public spaces, unlike cismen who access these spaces with a sense of entitlement learned from childhood. It explored the policing of gender and sexuality in urban spaces that dictates what and how you can look like, behave, do or not do in a particular space.
Another paper titled ‘Queer Friendships’ by Nandita Dutta looked at how most ‘literature on male friendships display a tendency to ‘queer’ them by reading into them the ‘erotic’.’
Consequently, Dutta suggested an alternative definition of 'queer friendship' between men, regardless of their sexual orientation, that de-centres sex and romance in favour of emotional intimacy and nurturing.
Shamini, who did her Masters in sexual dissidence, shared her paper on ‘Sakhi, a queer reading of Amrita Pritam’s works, namely her paintings ‘Bride’s Toilet’ and ‘Women resting on a charpoy’ among others.
Devesh Singh, a tech graduate who participated in all the events said that it was the first time he truly felt like he belonged to the community –
The Queer Mela that was held at Sarabhai’s Darpana Academy also saw friends and family of queer people join in.
Riddhi Rathore, an undergraduate and volunteer at the event said,
While the city can congratulate itself on the attendance it logged for the fest, there is much to do in terms of awareness. For instance, there were only a few parents who showed up at the Pride. Those who did included Mallika Sarabhai.
Another point was that a lot of the bystanders couldn’t understand the reason for the march. Raghubhai Patel, owner of a kirana store at CG Road, watched the procession, heard the slogans and asked, “What is this about, the Dalits?”
While pamphlets were being given out to the curious, the cause was pretty much lost on the lower-middle class section of the society that witnessed the march.
(Runa Mukherjee Parikh is an independent journalist with several national and international media houses like The Wire, Bust and The Swaddle. She previously reported for the Times of India. She is the author of the book 'Your Truth, My Truth (https://www.amazon.in/dp/B076NXZFX8)'. You can follow her at @tweetruna.)
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