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Have you ever been in a room full of friends and still felt that you are all alone? That you couldn’t really connect with anyone around? Well, it is possible that you were feeling lonely.
Many people will say, ‘So what? We all have felt lonely at some point or the other.’
True.
But what’s shocking is that loneliness is now being considered a serious health threat.
A recent study conducted by the American Psychological Association states that ‘social isolation, loneliness could be a greater threat to public health than obesity’.
While technology has made it possible for us to be connected 24*7, loneliness is difficult to digest or deal with.
And that’s not it! Loneliness can have serious physical and mental effects on your body.
Loneliness makes you feel stressed out, almost at all times. The feeling that nobody understands you or that you don’t have anyone to reach out to gradually becomes the cause of stress. The stress hormone cortisol becomes active in the brain when you start feeling isolated.
So the more you isolate yourself from your social circle, the more likely you are to be down in the dumps!
Research suggests that loneliness can lower your immunity levels. The stress due to loneliness results in higher production of inflammation-related proteins which might cause several health ailments.
Speaking to The Quint, Dr Achal Bhagat, Senior Consultant Psychiatrist and Psychotherapist, Indraprastha Apollo Hospitals, said:
Loneliness can actually break your heart!
Once you begin isolating yourself, you are more likely to drink and smoke more which might affect your heart health. The persistent tendency to avoid social interactions at all costs increases your stress levels and affects your cardiovascular system.
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Loneliness ruins the quality of sleep so it doesn’t restore your body, physically and psychologically. You might be prone to waking up more frequently at night owing to your disturbed sleep cycles.
Dr Bhagat warns us about the close links between loneliness and depression. Loneliness can become a serious mental health issue if it isn’t acknowledged for a long period of time.
Research suggests that ‘social isolation and loneliness significantly increase risk for premature mortality and the magnitude of the risk exceeds that of many leading health indicators’. The feeling of loneliness might increase the risk of death by 26 percent.
In an age where technology has taken over our lives and we are more connected, it is rather ironical that we are becoming lonelier than ever.
Yes, there is a way out but it will require effort from your end. Put away all your gadgets, and step out and meet people. Share your anxieties with your family and friends. Definitely don’t avoid their calls, texts and mails! And be generous with social invitations – accept them. After all, that’s how you will meet people!
Dr Bhagat has a simple tip if you are feeling lonely:
Well, what are you waiting for? Step out now before it’s too late.
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Published: 26 Aug 2017,05:32 PM IST