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Do you remember that one time when no matter how much you tried to hold your breath, your stomach didn’t look flat enough? And when you tried taking a selfie your pimple would pop out?
Well, let’s accept that all of us have at-least once in our lives edited our pictures to make them look more ‘appealing’. But did we stop at that one time?
Apps like Facetune, ModiFace Makeup and others like them, used heavily to edit waistlines and facial features, have become dangerous for our body image, especially when our online selves start to differ from the faces and bodies we wear in real life.
Psychologists are of the view that people who consciously or sub-consciously seek validation are the ones who spend hours fixing their flaws on these apps.
While some believe that "beauty" is natural and tied to our genetic and reproductive fate, the rules of the game have changed since photoshop made its entry. And so have the outcomes.
Dr. Anup, a plastic surgeon talks about a phenomenon called ‘Facebook Facelift’, where one is so conscious about how they look on social media that they consider plastic surgery as an option to fix what they see as flaws.
These apps might help you look thin and glowing, but they are definitely not helping your self-confidence. “Around 50% of the young boys and girls come to us because they want to enhance features like their lips or get a nose job because they think its a necessity for their social media,” said Dr. Anup.
Social media is evolving no doubt, but it constantly makes us question ourselves. There was a time when changing the appearance of a woman in a photograph would take hours and hours of expert, painstaking work by hand. And now, thanks to the rapid rate at which software has developed, anyone can retouch a photograph of themselves in a matter of seconds.
Facetuning might feel great at first, you can give yourself a free nose job. But the longer you spend fixing your nose and toning your cheeks, the fatter they look in the mirror.
We need to constantly think about what we are doing to ourselves and make a conscious effort to accept our flaws. It’s okay to not be a size zero and it’s okay to have outbreaks on your skin.
Young women (and men) shouldn’t let false advertising destroy their self-confidence.
It’s time for us to realise that it is okay to not be a size 0, cellulite and blemishes are natural and a barbie figure, isn’t really be an ideal figure.
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